Showing posts with label Our Story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Our Story. Show all posts

November 13, 2015

I'm Moving!




Hello Everyone!

Before the wedding things got crazy! And me being the crazy person that I am decided this would be a great time to move my whole blog over to wordpress to give me a little more freedom to do what I wanted with it. 

Well that didn't happen... 

Until last week!

I spent a ton of time doing design tweaks and getting everything looking great (and working better) so I could get back to focusing on the important stuff. More awesome content for you guys! I still have a lot of work to do on it, but I plan to be up and running (and posting again) in a week or two.

So head over to pretendingtobeanadult.net to see the new space and make sure to sign up for my email list so you don't miss any posts in the transition over! 










See you guys there! 



August 27, 2015

Pretending To Be An Adult!

Pretending to be an Adult!


Hello Internet!

You may have noticed a few changes around here... For example the NAME OF THE BLOG! 

*gasp*

I had a few weeks all to myself between jobs to get some serious stuff done! I had a lot of time to think and make and plan and decided I was ready to get back into blogging! There was just one tiny (HUGE!) problem. I wasn't as super excited about wedding planning as I used to be and could easily see myself getting burnt out on the topic once my wedding was over in October (a little over a month away!)

So it was time for some changes around here! I joined the Badass Babes and got down to business! The Badass Babes really gave me the focus and accountability I was lacking. So with a big THANK YOU to Sarah, I give you...

PRETENDING TO BE AN ADULT

I thought long and hard about what interests me, what I learned, and what I could help other people with. I decided I could share what I learn as I struggle every day with the balance of seeming like I am a grown up and feeling (and thinking) like a kid. I know there are a lot of people out there just like me having this problem and having someone to follow along and laugh at learn with them would be a huge help! I honestly have no idea what I am doing... but I LOOK like I have my act together, and I know you totally can too! ;)

So along with a whole new bag of adulting topics (sittin' pretty in the side bar there) I will continue to post wedding topics and every day life stuff. Here are a few posts in the works to get you all excited:

How to create a budget
How to make a cocktail
Clean your room! 
Saving money on a wedding venue
How to send a letter

Sound good? Great! I will be kicking things off next Thursday with "How To Create A Budget"
Because if you have you finances down and you can pay your bills on time you are basically an adult... well almost.


What are you struggling with right now as you 
pretend to be an adult?

Let me know in the comments and I just might do a post about it! You might never know if you don't ask! 


August 21, 2014

Off Topic - Grand Canyon Vacation



Two weeks ago I wrote a post about making sure to set aside some you time. I had also mentioned that I was currently on a trip to the grand canyon, so I thought you might want to see a few pictures from the trip!

We had a great time on our vacation and also a work out! and sunburn... OUCH!



Looking back the most amazing part of it was how enormous the grand canyon is. I knew it was going to be big, but I didn't really realize it until I saw it myself.



We did 2 trails while we were there one of the trails took you through all the layers of rock and through time with it. The rock above Larry thought would make really cool kitchen counter tops :)



The other trail we did was quite the hike! It was the bright angel trail, named after one of the many types of rock in the grand canyon. We hiked about 2 miles total. The mile back all uphill was brutal, but a good work out!



I had a Beet, Blue cheese, Bacon burger and it was weird yet delicious!


We stayed in Flagstaff while we were there so with the crater being so close we took a tour there. It was cool and kinda cheesy so it was fun!



Larry's grandma had told us while we were there to make sure to get a Navajo taco so we also tried to hunt down some place that had them. After a quick Yelp search we found a place and it just so happened to be where Guy from Diners, Drive ins, and Dives had a Navajo Taco! The photo on the Left is the Navajo Taco and the right is stuffed sopapillas which was also AMAZING! Both featured Frybread with different combinations of Mexican food ingredients.

Overall it was a super fun trip and a great break from the usual! If you get a chance I would highly recommend seeing it all, but maybe not driving there from Napa. We were really sick of being in the car by the end of the trip!

August 14, 2014

Using Pinterest Responsibly



I don't know how many times I have been told "I wish I had Pinterest when I was planning my wedding! It would have made everything so much easier!"

Oh Really?

While I see what they are saying and I want to agree with them picture this:

It is about 12am
I should have gone to bed hours ago, but I... can't... stop... Pinning! I don't know how I ended up making a board about cats in bow ties, but I have managed to collect over 200 pins for it. Wasn't I doing something? What did I come on here to look up in the first place? OH! Wedding stuff!

(Goes back to pinning wedding related pins)

It is 2am
I am currently pinning chicken salad recipes... It's 2 AM?! I really need to go to bed!

Sound familiar? I have lost count of how many times this has happened to me. I go on Pinterest to try and figure out an awesome solution to some detail on my wedding and end up all over the place, hours wasted, and no real progress made. I knew I needed to make a change or Pinterest was going to end up as more of a distraction than the amazing tool it should be. So here is how I use Pinterest Responsibly.


Plan Before You Pin
Have something to pin about. Focus on only that item or theme. Don't just start pinning blindly and hope you end up with a good collection in the end.

Don't allow yourself to change the board you are pinning to
Since Pinterest automatically assumes you are going to pin from the board you last pinned to it makes focusing really easy if you set some rules. Don't let yourself change the board you are pinning to and it will force you to stay focused.
TIP: If you find something in your focused search that you ABSOLUTELY NEED on one of your other boards open the pin in a new tab and let it sit there until you are done pinning or have time for less focused pinning.

Schedule It
If you are not currently PINspired you are less likely to spend so much time pinning, so schedule a time to pin and while it will be less fun it will also be more efficient!

Variety Over Quantity 
You do not need 20 versions of the same necklace on your jewelry board. My goal is to usually pin a small variety so my boards don't get too big and confusing yet they have a lot of ideas and options. So use a lot of differing key words in your searches and try not to pin more than 3 of similar looking items.

Make a lot of boards!
When it comes to wedding pinning I have a lot of boards with not too many pins. I of course have my crazy big general board to take pins from when making more focused boards, but a majority of my boards only have 100 or less pins. This keeps every thing easy to find and forces me to use Pinterest as a planning tool and not a picture collection.

If you want to see how I organized my wedding planing pins check out my Pinterest Profile!

Good luck fellow pinners!

August 07, 2014

Take Some You Time



Recently I have been overdoing it. I feel like I am working 5 jobs, and in a way I kind of am. I have:
My Full Time job
My Blog
My New Business Fezfetti!
Freelance Side Work
Babysitting
Usual Life stuff that I am surprised I have managed to not slack on, like cleaning, bathing, making food/eating, scooping the cat box.
Oh yeah, and planning a wedding!

Lucky (not lucky) for me my body does this awesome (not awesome) thing when I am overdoing it and it shuts down in a wonderful (not wonderful) variety of ways! Most recently is was a week long migraine, but getting sick and panic attacks are also some of it's favorites to throw at me. So this week I am on vacation going to see the Grand Canyon to take some much needed rest and me time!

But being the planner that I am and inspired by the tendency to take on more than I can handle, I bring you this post I wrote 2 weeks ago.

While not directly wedding related this is crucial to the any large planning process!
Take A Break! Part 2! Take some YOU time!
Just you all by yourself doing whatever makes you happy. It is so important to just stop and take a day from the usual! This is an incredibly hard thing to do for some people, and is something I have always have trouble with. So here are some ideas to take a moment for you!

Schedule it! 
For me if it isn't in my planner it doesn't happen.

Take a relaxing shower or bubble bath
Light some candles, use up those bath fizzes you got for Christmas,  throw them all in at once! Just make sure it feels special.

Take a walk or run
I always feel awesome after I go for a walk, you might be surprised at how it will help you with any thoughts that have been bugging you.

Read! 
Lock yourself in your room or do whatever it takes so that no one can bug you, then settle in with a good book.

Paint your nails/Do something that makes you feel put together
This one might be different for some people, but when my nails are done I really feel like I have my act together.

Take a "Sick Day" or Vacation
Taking a sick day when you are not sick is a great way to not get sick. Having that extra day to just relax and catch up on to dos or sleep in is refreshing.

Make favorite food or dessert
There is something about ice cream and frozen yogurt that just makes me happy! Having that after one of my favorite meals makes the whole day better no matter what happened.

That is just a couple of my favorites! So go out and treat yourself!

Now it's your turn!
How do you give yourself some much needed you time?

July 21, 2014

Fezfetti!



The day is finally here!
After many crazy nights and working WAY too much I have finally launched my Etsy Shop, Fezfetti!


I had been planning to do this shop for almost a year. It was one of my more major new year's resolutions, but I gave myself until December to actually do it. I am so excited it is all done and ready to share with you all!

My Designs are all instant download so that means no waiting for shipping! They are all Editable PDFs so you can fill in your information and print all at home! Going the DIY route is a great and easy way to save some cash, keep on budget, and still end up with a beautiful look! It also saves you from any last minute headaches! If you forget something there is no dealing with a printer or designer begging for a rush order. You simply edit and print more yourself!


If you or anyone you know is looking for invitations stop on by my shop and check out my new invitation set Cute & Casual. It is available as individual items and as a full set.

I plan on making more than wedding invitations in the future and leaning toward more nerdy designs! So make sure to favorite my shop or sign up for my blog newsletter on the right to keep updated with new designs as they come out!

July 10, 2014

Snickerdoodle Cupcakes



Hello Internet!
I have another take a break post for you guys today! It is fitting since I have not done any planning myself for a few weeks! I am having a venue dilemma, launching an Etsy shop in a week, and trying to keep up with regular life stuff so I have been stretched a little thin. This week I am going to share with you how to make the lovely cupcakes above!

These cupcakes are always a hit and I have lost count how many times I have made them! The original recipe comes from Martha Stewart and can be found here: LINK!

First you need to gather your ingredients!


You will need:
1½ cups all-purpose flour
1½ cups cake flour sifted
1 tablespoon baking powder
½ teaspoon salt
1 tablespoon ground cinnamon
1 cup (2 sticks) butter at room temperature
1 ¾ cups sugar
4 large eggs also room temperature
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1¼ cups almond milk
1-2 Fun beverages of your choice because you can!

The almond milk is a change I made because I can't have regular or soy milk. I think it also adds a nice subtle almond hint. I have noticed that people who don't eat milk or eggs for non-allergy reasons are more likely to cheat their diet and eat one because of this little change!

























Now gather up all your dry ingredients and sift them all together!
Dry Ingredients to sift: Both Flours, Baking Powder, Salt & Cinnamon.

Now Throw all your wet ingredients (not including the milk) in another bowl and mix until all fluffy!
Wet ingredients to mix: Butter, Sugar, Eggs & Vanilla.

Okay now you should have a bowl of dry mixture and a bowl of wet mixture. Slowly alternate adding a small scoop of the dry mix then a small amount of milk (1¼ cups total) to the bowl of wet. It might sound complicated but I just turn my kitchenaid on low with the wet mixture in it and add a ¼ cup at a time back and forth of dry mix and milk until I run out of both. 

Once it is all mixed up you will end up with a fluffy batter that tastes like magic and looks like soupy sand. Scoop that into baking cups with a big spoon and bake them for 10 minutes, rotate them in the oven and then bake for 10 more minutes. You know they are done when you can stick a toothpick in the middle and nothing sticks to it when you pull it out.

TA DA! And they taste as good as they look! I frost them with a butter cream frosting, sprinkle on a little cinnamon and bake little snickerdoodles to put on top. 
(I would say that it is optional to frost and bake cookies to go on top, but it really adds to the magic and look so don't skip that part!)

Here is a snickerdoodle recipe if you need one:

And here is the frosting recipe I use:
⅔ cups white vegetable shortening
⅓ cup butter, softened
1 pound powdered sugar, sifted
¼ cup heavy or whipping cream
1 teaspoon clear vanilla
Basically add each of those ingredients in order one at a time mixing a lot in between adding each and you end up with awesome frosting magic!

So take a break this weekend and bake some cupcakes! You deserve it!
Don't forget to bring me one!

July 03, 2014

Happy 4th of July!




























I am a little early but the 4th is the anniversary of my first date with Larry so I have a whole big surprising day planned! (I have no idea what he has planned, but I will have to wake up at 5 am!) So I am just going to give you a little update with what is new with me this week instead of a full wedding post. Honestly I have not done any wedding anything in almost a month other than blog updates! I am launching an Etsy shop later this month and all of my extra time has been going into that. I will have a big launch post on the 20th when the shop goes live along with my regular post for that week. The shop does have something to do with weddings so it is still related to the blog and I promise I will not get all spammy on here once it opens!

Anyway! I hope you all have a safe and fun fourth of July!

June 19, 2014

2 Dresses? No Way!




























Dresses!? Two? What are you made out of money?
I have watched my fair share of say yes to the dress and it always blew my mind when one of the brides would drop $10,000 on two or even three dresses for the wedding. For me it was hard for me to imagine spending any large amount of money on just ONE dress let alone multiple dresses that I was only going to wear for a day.

When I was in the fitting room with the dress I ended up purchasing the main thing I had going though my head was "I love this dress, but it is not what I thought I wanted" I struggled back and forth over if I should get it since it was my plan from the beginning to get a Tea length or shorter dress so I could dance in it easily. While having my inner dilemma one of the ladies working the dress event asked me if I had thought about having 2 dresses to solve my problem. I looked again at the price tag of the dress I was wearing and gave that a serious thought. That seems very doable, and the only reason 2 dresses was never an option was only because of price. It seemed excessive and a waste of my already small budget. So I decided to be one of those girls and have 2 dresses for my wedding.

So I can't find out where I read this (Despite spending over an hour looking) but I read that at one point it was common that a woman's wedding dress was re-purposed as her best dress or a church dress. After her wedding she would have the dress dyed another color and be able to wear it for more than just her wedding day. Financially this makes a lot of sense and it is a lot less wasteful compared to current traditions.

So I want to do just that! I plan on making my shorter dancing dress with my mom and then wearing it as a nice dress later on like what women did back then. I might even try to dye it a new color!!! I will get more use out of it and all the work we put into it will be more worth it if I wear it more than once.

June 05, 2014

How I Accidentally Found my Dress



It didn't hit us until we started walking to the car. We REALLY just bought our wedding dresses! I certainly felt weird buying my dress over a year before my wedding, but it just seemed so right. Here is how it happened.

The week before I was going through my email and I had a message about a wedding event in Napa. It was strange because the past few events I had been to were never so close. So I asked Olivia (my maid of honor) if I could drag her to another wedding show. She of course said yes and a few days later we got lost (in the town I live in) looking for the event...

So when we finally got there we looked around. It was a bit smaller than I had thought but there were A LOT of dresses! This was a Brides Against Breast Cancer event.


Brides against breast cancer is a non profit organization that collects donated wedding dresses and resells them at a discount to raise money to help people with cancer. Since wedding dresses are usually only worn once it means these dresses are usually in pretty good shape. All the ones at the event I went to practically looked brand new other than a little pull or stain here and there. Easy fixes! Overall they do a really good job and I would really recommend buying your dress at one of their events. Plus you will save a ton of money and what you do spend goes to a great cause! Win Win!

So back to shopping! We started looking around and instantly found tons of hilarious dresses! It was too much fun looking at the crazy dresses that someone actually wore on their big day! So I grabbed a few short dresses that I thought might have a chance and then Olivia and I both decided to try on one of the silly dresses just for fun. I chose a big poofy long dress, the complete opposite of what I wanted or planned on getting.

Can you guess what dresses happened to look amazing and fit us both perfectly?
Yeah, the silly dresses...

When I looked in the mirror after zipping it up I actually said "Oh no!" because I really really liked it and it fit like a glove. I then looked at the price tag hoping it was too expensive. It was really affordable! DARN!

Olivia's was an amazing deal also and we ended up getting them. It didn't really hit us until we were walking out to the car and we weren't entirely sure what to do after because of the shock of doing something so impulsive. It was a strange day.

So that is how I accidentally bought my wedding dress! Well, one of them anyway... but that is story for another day!

March 27, 2014

Busy! Busy!

Hello Internet!

Sorry for no post last week, but life happens and life has decided to be busy out of nowhere at the moment! I have been swamped with side work and haven't been sleeping much. I don't feel right about posting some rushed useless info just to have a post so the blog had to go on hold for a little bit. This week unfortunately is twice as busy as last week and I don't have time (without risking no sleep) to give you the amazing post I want to give you. So instead I will give you this fabulous picture of me in my dress!



Yes I found my dress! I have a whole post in the works about how IT found ME and that should be up in the next few weeks. Next week I should be all back to normal since most of my deadlines fall on this Saturday. Have a good week everyone!

P.S.
Here is a serious sneak peak of the dress!



March 13, 2014

Picking a Theme & Colors



Hello Internet!

I wanted to start off the month's projects with something fun, but also SUPER important! IF there is a good place to begin with wedding/party planning then picking a theme and colors would be it. It sure seems like a fun thing you were probably thinking about anyway, but it is crucial in future decisions and makes them a lot easier to make. Here is what happened to me.

For me, colors were a no brainer. Everything was going to be teal! I added silver to spice things up a bit, but when it came to choosing specific items for decor I was having a really hard time choosing what fit this dream wedding image in my head. So I spent hours on Pinterest trying to find the perfectly me teal centerpiece and wasn't happy with anything I found. I looked at so many other people's weddings and realized what I liked so much was how they flowed. They had a theme, and I wanted one now too!

So why is this important?
When you have a theme everything starts falling into place. I chose Vintage Carnival as my theme because it was a way I could include all of the random details I had actually made up my mind about. (I knew I wanted candy, balloons, and a general fun atmosphere to my wedding!) Once I had the theme, suddenly it was easy to pick centerpieces and decor and food and outfits!  I had something to reference to spark some ideas I could choose from. (I probably spent a solid 2 hours on Pinterest going carnival crazy with all the options that all fit perfectly!)

Having a hard time picking a theme and colors? I know I did!
Here are some questions to ask yourself and your fiance to get some ideas flowing!

What colors do you own a lot of? 

What colors make you happy whenever you see them?

What places always make you happy?

What does your dream dress look like? (your theme should fit how formal your dress will be)

Close your eyes and imagine walking into you dream reception what do you see?

What are some specific details?

Is it outside? 

What time of day or year is it? 

How does it make you feel?

Where do you have the most fun?

Where do you feel the most comfortable?

Have you been to any themed parties that you really enjoyed? 

What did you like about them?

Once you have your theme and colors picked out it will be so much easier to make decisions later on! Also if you haven't yet (not likely) make a Pinterest board for your wedding. It is perfect for brainstorming and finding ideas, plus it is SO FUN! That is where I got the awesome collage for my image above. Check out my Wedding Pinterest Board for all of the cool ideas from a bunch of awesome people!

Have an awesome idea that you just want to tell someone? Do you have a favorite party theme? Let me know in the comments!

February 06, 2014

How it Began - The Proposal

Hello Internet!

Lets start with what started this whole wedding thing!


The Proposal.
After an amazing trip to Las Vegas we headed to part two of our big summer vacation we had been looking forward to for months. (No we did not get engaged in Las Vegas...) We were headed to one of both of our favorite places Disneyland! One sunscreen party and a tram ride later we walked in the gates and headed straight for Pirates of the Caribbean. I have to admit I had a feeling it was going to happen in Disneyland, but I had no idea when and not knowing was killing me! After Pirates we went to tom sawyer island because it was open and I swear it has been closed every time I have been there recently! We take the little raft over and start looking around. I spot those round tube things you talk into that connect with another one farther away, and I run over to it. Larry spots the one connected  it is connected to up on a bridge and tells me to go to it. So I run up the stairs and say hello into the tube. I hear a hello back and then  he tells me to look back over the bridge. So I turn around look down over the side of the bridge and he is on one knee with a ring!!!



After all the cute bits with him asking me a certain question and me saying yes he then hands me my phone knowing I would want to start texting everyone the news! (he knows me well!)
Here is a close up of my ring! I took the picture on Star Tours since the lighting was making it look even more amazing!


So that is how it happened and I couldn't be happier!

November 12, 2013

TAKE THAT UNIVERSE!

Hello Internet!

My normal Monday morning blog post just was not going to happen yesterday, and here is why.



My November 9th Facebook Status - "I had a terrible day today so I made myself a big messy pink cake to make myself feel better! TAKE THAT UNIVERSE I HAVE CAKE NOW SO THERE!"

Let me start with that morning...


It was a lovely Saturday and I wanted to watch me some bath crashers! Turns out the xbox did not agree with my plans. Xbox live was down so me and my fiance decided it xboxes are DUMB and that we would finally hook up the play station and watch it on there. After few giant sparks, a horrendously terrible smell, and a very loud humming zzzzzzzz noise we had a PS3 that smelled like burning plastic (along with the rest of the apartment) and this in the back of our brand new 55in smart TV:




(For my less techie readers that is an HDMI cable melted into the hole that it goes into!!!)

Yeah it was kind of bad... okay is was REALLY REALLY bad!
Turns out that we had a wall plug that was not grounded and hadn't been the whole time we were living here!!!

Wow that explains this whole other list of problems and shocks that we couldn't figure out why they were happening! 

For example:
-Our old flat screen frying
-Larry's fancy nerd computer frying
-3 other HDMI cords melting
-Numerous shocks and sparks

So what does a cake have to do with this?

I was not in a good place and I didn't have any ice cream or chocolate eat my feelings with so I made myself a cake! I had a store bought strawberry cake mix and a jar of cherry frosting in the pantry so it was cheating a little, but that just made it better! I made myself a big messy pink cake and slathered a whole container of bright pink cherry frosting. It was the most obnoxious thing I have ever made. It was even bright pink on the inside! and you know what I thought?! IT NEEDS SPRINKLES! So I added them! and then I took pictures! 



Anyway it made me feel a lot better! 
So remember, you can turn a bad day around with something that makes you smile!
Don't give in to the terrible that might be around you, and don't wait for it to get better! 
Make it better NOW! 
(with cake)


November 07, 2013

8 Months of Mayonnaise

Hello Internet!

Today being Thursday I am going to start my Thursday Thoughts off with Mayonnaise!

Last year me and my fiance (boyfriend at the time) moved into our very own apartment! Previously we were in a room at my dad's house. When we left my father gave us a few odd ball things to start us off. Being a chef these made sense since these are our kitchen staples.

1. A GIGANTIC can of tomatos
2. A 2.2 lb container of chicken bullion
3. A 1 Gallon container of mayonnaise!

Do you know how much a gallon of mayonnaise is? Do you know long it takes 2 average mayonnaise consumers to go through a gallon of it?

The ansewer to the first is: OMG THIS CONTAINER IS TOO BIG FOR OUR FRIDGE!
(we have a smaller fridge and we were constantly redo the puzzle that was the bottom shelf so everything would fit.)

The answer to the second question is 8 MONTHS!

We finally had to buy mayonnaise this week and it was a strange feeling having a fourth of our bottom shelf in the fridge back. Suddenly we had room for our leftover containers! It was also strange seeing the empty jar in the recycling...

Oh you want to see it?
Here it is next to a much smaller 2qt container.
Note: 2qt was the LARGEST size we could buy at our usual grocery store. and it still makes the gallon size look big!!!



So there is your random tidbit of the day today, that is what a gallon of mayonnaise looks like!
Now that it is gone and recycled I kind of miss it...

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